Social - Fake Friendships

These situations have been bothering me alot
Or they used to disturb me during the past years.

I am no longer helping and listening to others tooo much
Because by doing so, I would tend to
Forget about myself and my OWN needs.

So if this is OR a similar situation is troubling you

CONSIDER :
If that Friendship is worth keeping...
----- OR -----
If you have to let go.

Other thing important to remember is that...
Even if you cannot...
Save a romantic relationship keep the friendship
Save the friendship carry no guilty no faults
You did everything you could have done
To save it.

You are not being selfish by doing so
And also leave all that either closed
and/or cleared up from any missunderstandings
That way you won't stress as much
and you will have more peace of mind.

Finally, what I mean is
You can indeed help others
But definately keep an eye on yourself
Focus on yourself
And let no one affect you.

Have a great week.

Social - Fake Friendships

These situations have been bothering me alot
Or they used to disturb me during the past years.

I am no longer helping and listening to others tooo much
Because by doing so, I would tend to
Forget about myself and my OWN needs.

So if this is OR a similar situation is troubling you

CONSIDER :
If that Friendship is worth keeping...
----- OR -----
If you have to let go.

Other thing important to remember is that...
Even if you cannot...
Save a romantic relationship keep the friendship
Save the friendship carry no guilty no faults
You did everything you could have done
To save it.

You are not being selfish by doing so
And also leave all that either closed
and/or cleared up from any missunderstandings
That way you won't stress as much
and you will have more peace of mind.

Finally, what I mean is
You can indeed help others
But definately keep an eye on yourself
Focus on yourself
And let no one affect you.

Have a great week.

World - Distracted Driving Awareness

Today I was around Youtube and I bumped into a video
About Texting and Driving.
Followed by that I found several (not to say a LOT)
Of articles about this subject.

Somehow related to this
there are other topics
Such as Distracted driving and also, Drunk driving.

My purpose here and NOW
and from now on is to open your eyes to this reality :

You have time for everything
To have fun, to be serious, to study
To dream, to work, to go out...

Don't OVER DO.
You have a whole life ahead of you
I am sure you do not want it
to flash in front of your eyes
Nor that it ends early.

Also , I am sure that
You don't want any injuries in the future
Or even a mourning family.

TO AVOID THIS,
Proper steps must be taken
Security and driving must be the priority
Awaneress (even tho some are violent)
Is never enough

A seat belt CAN save your life
and prevent you from accidents
Not texting others while driving
Will make you 100% focused on your driving!

Never put that as second task
But put DRIVING as first
If you do so, you will remain safe
Otherwise you won't

Consequences are often fatal
It takes just a second, one little distraction.

Another subject is texting
You can TEXT any time
You can answer that call anytime
And explain everything with TIME

So this is no joke
Many, many acidents could have been avoided
Could have been prevented
Many persons
Could have lived on to this day.

Videos




A Story about Distracted Driving (Trigger Warning)

Faces of Distracted Driving (Trigger Warning)

Websites :
Distraction.gov

Takethewheel.net

Please take care
Love you all.

World - Distracted Driving Awareness

Today I was around Youtube and I bumped into a video
About Texting and Driving.
Followed by that I found several (not to say a LOT)
Of articles about this subject.

Somehow related to this
there are other topics
Such as Distracted driving and also, Drunk driving.

My purpose here and NOW
and from now on is to open your eyes to this reality :

You have time for everything
To have fun, to be serious, to study
To dream, to work, to go out...

Don't OVER DO.
You have a whole life ahead of you
I am sure you do not want it
to flash in front of your eyes
Nor that it ends early.

Also , I am sure that
You don't want any injuries in the future
Or even a mourning family.

TO AVOID THIS,
Proper steps must be taken
Security and driving must be the priority
Awaneress (even tho some are violent)
Is never enough

A seat belt CAN save your life
and prevent you from accidents
Not texting others while driving
Will make you 100% focused on your driving!

Never put that as second task
But put DRIVING as first
If you do so, you will remain safe
Otherwise you won't

Consequences are often fatal
It takes just a second, one little distraction.

Another subject is texting
You can TEXT any time
You can answer that call anytime
And explain everything with TIME

So this is no joke
Many, many acidents could have been avoided
Could have been prevented
Many persons
Could have lived on to this day.

Videos




A Story about Distracted Driving (Trigger Warning)

Faces of Distracted Driving (Trigger Warning)

Websites :
Distraction.gov

Takethewheel.net

Please take care
Love you all.

Religion - God's Message I

Let Him speak to you

Listen everyone...

He says :

Do not hold onto anything that insults him
And do not deny Our Lord, Our Father
As one who denies Him here on Earth
Will be denied by Him in the Heavens.

I do not listen to any song that insults or puts Him to shame
Personally I follow no fashions nor trends
Look on what they do to each one of you!

Be yourself, your true SELF
Let no fame nor influence bind you,
let no one to control your Will nor poison you.

" Unbreakable Will
Unshakable Faith
Unconditional Love
This is what you need ".
-- Life.


"Then you will know the truth,
and the truth will set you free."
John 8:32

That Knowledge, that Truth will cleanse your eyes.
This is what you need to know .

Allow yourself to be close to God
(For such, no Church in this Earth is needed)

Because if you are close to Him
You shall be free from any chain
And He will be there!

I am sure. And I believe.
Also, talk to Him from inside your heart
An open heart. About your sins and mistakes
You will be understood and guarded from harm.

I shall leave here one worship song :
DMX - Lord give me a sign

The Lord will not fail.
Blessed be!

Job - How to create a survey

I am going to give you some tips that I learned
While I was in schoool on how to create a survey ;
I eventually , and also, learned more
While working as someone who does opinion surveys
To people on the phone.

A) It is preferable to start off with questions
that bring interest to the other person and
that do not scare or intimidate him/her
on the other side of the line.

B) Avoid personal questions
or tematics that offer more resistance of answer
Such as polithics, money or sexuality.

C) Place each question in the same subject
To avoid confusion and wastes of time.

D) Variety in the way you create/say/start
Each question is needed.

Types of Questions

- Closed
(Yes OR No)

- Open
(Why? - They often require an opinion
or a more developted answer)

- Semi-Open
(Contain Yes AND Why)

Avoid...

E) Introducing two questions in one;

F) Asking "Why" very oftenly ;

G) Formulating questions in the negative form.

Social - Eating Disorders : Music

I was searching for songs
about this subject that personally
has been in my head for quite some days
and on which I wrote about.

I found some songs on which
I believe they have a strong message
And on which I hope they aren't triggering.







I leave to you, also, a very touching video from a 4 year old.
Yes, a four year old!
Listen carefully.

<3


THERE WILL NEVER BE ANOTHER YOU

YOU ARE UNIQUE !

YOU HAVE THE POWER TO STOP IT .


<3 And my words to add :

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL,

No matter how much you weight!

STAY SAFE AND STAY HEALTHY *

I am here if you ever, ever,
EVER need someone to talk with.
To reach me you can search

For me on my youtube page... Sy0592
Or contact me here on the tab "Contact us!"
<3 We have our facebook page also.
We are here for YOU.

Please take care
And stay strong xx

Suicide - A Letter for the Speechless and Hopeless

Dear _________ ,

You certainly have and will have a lot to live for.
Do not back down nor give up in dificulties that appear
They are mere temporary things.
Never ever give up fighting in this life.
We all are warriors one way or another
We all struggle to survive and aim for something
If you do not know, YOU WILL.

Everything has its proper time to happen.
Here and between worlds.

A Verdade comanda a Vida (Truth commands Life)
The Truth is that you will make it through and you will live to tell
Even your worst moments and dificulties and how that made you
A stronger and wiser, developted person.

You will be rewarded - you see
Better than knowing others, know yourself
To afterwards meet other people.
Open your arms to your life.

Do not ever see loneliness as an end or obstacle
But as a chance to grow and developt your inner self
A start for something new, a chance for a change
A chance to find someone who can treat you better
Or treats you right as you deserve.


You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe,
Deserve your love and affection.
-- Inspiring Lotus

Who may/must like and love you?
Ones who do like you and love you
By seeing you in your own and true colours

Ones who trully do, will put aside your flaws.
Believe in yourself. I know you can do it, I know you can do this!
Never kiss your life goodbye
And leave behind any idea for giving up in any way.

Leave behind - Life´s Advice

My advice for today takes simple steps...

You will need :

+ 10 (OR more 3) Rocks OR stones AND another stone
(Total of 14)

+ BLACK, BLUE (OPTIONAL) and a RED ink marker.

+ To be in a place near a river or beach

----

Step 1 :
Go to a beach or river.
You won't need a swimsuit or a bikini for this
Only if you planned previously on going to the beach ;)

Step 2 :
You can go with friends to do this
Yet, this procedure would be better done alone
You need concentration and no distractions.

Step 3 :
Grab your stones one by one and with the BLACK marker write down
Your problems which can be TEN or more...

Step 4 (OPTIONAL)
Grab THREE stones and one by one and in BLUE write down
Your wishes.

Step 5
Grab in only one stone and in RED
Make a single "X" in the middle.

Step 6
Throw the stones with black one by one
And think about the problems fading away
Or being solved already.
Afterwards throw the stone with the "X" in RED.
As for the blue ones, keep them near you.

Step 7 :
Pray (if you do not know how, speak to Him)
They will be solved, I have Faith in it.

Meaning of Black
The bad habits and problems you had.

Meaning of Blue
What you want to achieve.

Meaning of Red
Admiting and letting go.
Redemption, "X" marks the spot,
Leaving what is bad behind.

Step 8
Leave the place without hesitating
Nor looking back.
Take your three stones written in blue.

I say :
" May you obtain what you want
Leave your troubles and what harms you behind
May them be washed and taken away by the sea
And taken to God, for them to be solved".

My prayers are with you.

Tips for a better Life - Life´s Advice

I found this post online so I decided to share it with you...
Note : All the content belongs to its rightful owner!
SOURCE : Pravsworld.com
I highly advice it, it is a great website!

Tips for Better Life

1. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day.
And while you walk, smile.

2. Sit in silence
For at least 10 minutes each day.

3. Sleep for 7 hours.
(Or eight hours which is the daily recommended I think)

4. Live with the 3 E’s — Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
(Which I absolutely agree and once you have it
Others shall notice)

5. Play more games.

6. Read more books than you did the previous year.

7. Make time to practise meditation, yoga, and prayer.
They provide us with daily fuel for our busy lives.

8. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.

9. Dream more while you are awake.

10. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants
and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.

11. Drink plenty of water.

12. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
(Which I call making a good action per day)

13. Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip.

14. Forget issues and do not dwell in the past.
Don’t remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past.
That will ruin your present happiness.
Concentrate the mind on the present moment.
(It is very, very important, point 14)

15. Don’t have negative thoughts on things you cannot control.
Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.

16. Realise that life is a school and you are here to learn.
Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear
And fade away like algebra class
But the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.

17. Eat Breakfast like a King,
Lunch like a Prince
and Dinner like a Beggar.
(Very wise)

18. Smile and laugh more.

19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
Don’t hate others.

20. Don’t take yourself so seriously.
No one else does.

21. You don’t have to win every argument.
Agree to disagree.

22. Make peace with your past
So it won’t spoil the present.

23. Don’t compare your life to others’.
You have no idea what their journey is all about.
Don’t compare your partner with others.

24. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

25. Forgive everyone for everything.

26. What other people think of you is none of your business.

27. GOD heals everything.

28. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

29.Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick.
Your friends will. Stay in touch.

30. Get rid of anything
That isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.

31. Envy is a waste of time.
You already have all you need.

32. The best is yet to come.

33. No matter how you feel,
Get up, dress up and show up.

34. Do the right thing!

35. Call your family often.

36. Your inner most is always happy.
So be happy.

37. Each day give something good to others.

38. Don’t over do.
Keep your limits.

39. When you awake alive in the morning,
Thank GOD for it.

40.Don’t be more calculative
In your life for all things.