quinta-feira, 30 de maio de 2013
I was able to rest for at least a couple of hours.
Double post, which is not the regular basis but I wish to make it up to you
In case there is a time I leave the blog less active.
Today is an important day...
For us, me and (I also believe) you.
It has been two years since our first kiss, since we started dating
I remember it as it was yesterday.
That beautiful place with the perfect company.
It has been two years, with times of joy, hurt, laughter and much love.
Two years of many to come, if your heart desires the same as me.
Two years loving and living with and for someone else
Wanting nothing else that his happiness.
I was and am not the kind of person
to wish anything else different than a love for life.
Short term relationships are not meant for me.
I wished someone for life, to hold closely, look after and love much.
And also to feel the same back, for me.
At that time, I was not expecting to meet you.
We began as friends. I was not looking for love.
Time passed and we were trusting more and more in eachother.
Going out for a walk or coffee, laughting much, speaking a lot on the phone
(We could speak for hours about random things , everything and nothing
And even talk about serious subjects)
I fell in love with that handsome young man.
He loved me back, but I was scared if he didn't love me back...
We had already a solid friendship and I didn't want to lose it,
In case he didn't felt the same.
One day, the 29th, we asked eachother, something like this on msn :
« Do you like LIKE someone? »
(I hesitated but said) « Yes... »
Then I said « You. »
I logged off but left other of my accounts open.
Then he told me that he had something to tell me.
That he loved me back.
I was really shy at the time but I felt the happiest and luckiest person in the World!
I still do, after all these days, months and years shared.
I do not know what will the future bring for us.
Only GOD know and time will tell.
I shall be waiting and want you to know that you made me...
A better person than I used to be
A stronger human being, for always believing in me
A beautiful man who saw me and loved me for being just...ME.
Hopefully I can bring and give you as much or more
Than you gave to me.
WordsKeeper, this is for you.
Thank you... I love you !
Good evening , dearest.
Today I had a massive headache and cold in the morning,
so I am convinced that I have to slow down, overall.
Giving a time to rest.
I think they were leftovers from the yesterday :
I was already not feeling good at work (headaches) and I was stressed up.
Those combined led to a breakdown, I suppose. [28/5]
As some might know, Life Blog started as my own journal and therapy.
Afterwards I believe (still do)
that I have much to say, teach and speak out
to the public or anyone willing to read me.
[...] Since I have started studying
I have been through highs and lows, as it is usual.
However, I have been facing some gossiping and comments from colleagues.
A situation from fifteen days ago and it was not that much of a big deal...
But it was not forgotten along with other events...
Answer to SELF :
Yes, those gossips affected me.
The next question is : Until when ??
I have been fragile lately but I manage to make it through the day ,
Work combined to the course along with the lack of time for resting , etc
I believe I am proud of my acchievements, because my «older self»
would just give up and give in (waving a white flag)
Instead of NOW always keeping up and pushing forward, «new self».
I admit that today I was almost to the point of wanting to cry.
But I had to keep moving and I went to my appointment.
On therapy I was reminded of the progress that I made
Since I have started until now. The psychologist is proud
and I smiled.
But she told me one thing in particular that really made me wonder ...
« I know you went through a lot, , I really know.
But they do not know that. »
« You have two options :
Back away and ignore or confront and face the consequences. »
[...] «This is not bullying from high school coming back»
These words... it was like she was really reading my mind.
« It is not coming back ».
« Bullying is not coming back ».
It reassured me, it conforted me during this time of need
And I feel that to get along and to create empathy
with the psychologist/doctor/counselor is key.
About friendships...we do not need a lot of friends
Just people that are there during the good and bad times
Answer : It is not coming back and I am not going to give in.
I have personal and professional goals and nothing is going
To keep me away from them.
Many blessings !
segunda-feira, 27 de maio de 2013
Opinions divide in this point.
Some say it is somewhat hand to hand with breaking up.
In my point of view, I disagree
However, it is not always that way.
It does not mean exactly that.
Sometimes, people need a bit of space for themselves.
One that needs to think about the relationship
Or other that needs to analise himself or herself.
Again, in my opinion,
Any relationship can be sucessful
As long as love exists
And the couple is willing to work things out.
I think such is possible.
I do believe in relationships
And personally I do give my best for my better half.
I also believe, at heart, that by being honest, sincere
And by communicating your own thoughts and feelings
That any problems or issues can and will be solved quickly.
I absolutely trust that, if the person is not ending the relation
That there still is hope and there is still a spark and feelings.
I believe in love and I believe in the relationship that I am in
Always fighting for it, the best I can.
It is good to analise yourself and gain Independence
In order to not suffocate your partner with demandings
He/She ought to have his/her own circle of friends
It is healthy to be a little time apart
Then while coming back together you can talk again
And sort out your diferences and conclusions.
Time can be useful for that.
"Never Forget your partner, your better half
Give him/her space, yet let him/her
Know that you are there unconditionally".
I have faith in so.
So have faith, too.
sexta-feira, 24 de maio de 2013
Good afternoon everyone,
Warning ! : This particular post may be triggering,
Eventhough that is not my intention, at all.
[...] Sleepiness. A strong effort from the heart--- followed by fast and slow heart beatings,
I felt drowsy and I went to sleep right away.
I took an impulsive action, sure to say that it was the worst to take in my life
and I was clearly not acting consciously and with clear thoughts...
I must highlight that.
[...] I woke up, but I was still feeling sleepy,
Coming slowly to conciouness
It is a true story.
It carries no glamour or whatsoever.
[...] Only after some hours I felt better.
But this history...is a real story and my fate could have been different.
Life gave me a second chance, BUT I could have died!
Then I think :
My family. My friends.
People who stood up for me and love me the way I am.
They aren't perfect but neither am I.
What I really want to tell you
and wish for you to take as a lesson is this :
" Never take your Life for granted,
Nor take it too lightly because it can slip away ".
" Do not hurt yourself.
You have value and I am sure that you are treasured! ".
How do I know this?
I just know it, at heart.
Negative situations will pass. Taking your life won't, it is permanent.
It would be a wound for all your loved ones, a permanent one because you are not replacable, ever.
Take this plead to heart.
Listen to it, throughly
And pass it to others,
In hope of letting people know of this harsh truth.
We need to save them.
And I want to save YOU.
quarta-feira, 22 de maio de 2013
This has been a rather interesting journey...!
We all have to make them at certain point or points in our lives.
From little and insignificant ones such as
"Which color clothing am I going to pick out to wear today?"
Or "Should I get fish or meat for dinner"?
...Up to life changing decisions that can give your life a 360º turn...
For example :
"Should I start taking a professional course, go college or start working?"
"Should I have kids or should I adopt?"
Because they have a significant impact in your life.
We tend to ask advice, once in a while.
NOTE : Secretly, we tend to seek approval and support from other people.
I admit I did, from friends. It became too much, up to the limit
Of being way too dependent and reliable on them.
It became too much. Too overwhelming.
« I found out and discovered that, looking closely,
I wasn't taking decisions for myself 100%,
Like I had a chackle in my ankles nearly all the time ».
This is the closest to describe and I have learned the hard way.
It is not easy to choose so. To open up this way.
This is 100% my decision.
Now looking back,
How could I let it go this far? To not be fully independent?
The beauty of life is that.
To know that the rights and wrongs of a decision
were done by YOU and you, alone.
To know that no one else carried the "blame".
It can be scary, but we have to face our fears.
« Part of growing up is exactly to hold
And assume the responsibility of his/her mistakes »
And... finally to know that one decision
Is NOT a burden nor has to carry weight along.
It is a decision and you have the power to choose.
You do not have to seek approval.
It is good to have support now and then,
But people are not forced to nod their heads (yes, yes)
And simply agree all the time...
They can have different opinions and views, based or not on the situation.
It is normal.
« One who is not going through the situation
Will have a whole diferent perception and perspective ».
Plus there is another point (question) to take to heart :
Or does not know the situation or the people involved? »
They can even be leading you to a wrong direction,
Wrong decision or something that you do not wish to do!
« Besides this, you are NOT FORCED to make his/her opinions
The undeniable truth or something you have to go follow and do ».
To make your own decisions,
Choosing them by your own hand...
1. Will make you feel better.
2. You will become more independent.
3. You will get stronger and build confidence.
You can feel free.
I am no longer hearing the ones who do not know my situation
Nor have walked in my shoes.
It is better off this way and I smile because I attained so.
I can decide for myself, even if I make mistakes, I am human.
I can decide for myself, the way I wish it to be.
I am... Just me... and I can be so much more.
And so can be you.
segunda-feira, 20 de maio de 2013
These are troubled times we are experiencing.
Therefore my goal is to help one another, whenever possible.
So, I picked Self Esteem.
There are three ways to see Self Esteem...
1 ) The way we see ourselves.
2 ) The way others see us.
3 ) The way we think that others see us.
Ought to collide with eachother at times.
Our self esteem starts to be formed at an early age.
Our parents are responsible shape that aspect while they are educating us
That shapes The way we see ourselves.
While we grow and watch our colleagues and parents.
Thus, we are facing and seeing The way others see us
(through their actions, sayings and opinions)
Lastly, we can have a third perception on self esteem :
The way we think that others see us,
and this one can be either right or very wrong.
(means that it can be distorted easily)
It is VERY IMPORTANT to take Self Esteem nearly at heart.
Otherwise, growing up with a poor self esteem can be devastating.
Likewise, growing up with a overly high self esteem can be troubling, too.
I grew up with a poor self esteem, I admit it.
The perception I had of the world and of my future was not bright
When one grows up with a poor self esteem, he or she can tend to isolate
Lose security and value in his or herself.
And all the rest came along (can be read in other posts), as you know.
But those least positive points are not
What I want to teach or bring highlight upon.
The bottom line is to pay attention to these situations
For your loved one's sake and health!
A bruised self esteem can give place for other problems such as...
- Lack of Security
- Eating Disorders
- For one to become a bully or bullied.
- Other health disorders and mental illness
- Self Injury
- Suicidal thoughts.
- Risk of Suicide.
We have to let our children and teens know the rights and wrongs
Know tolerance, acceptance and other essencial values
Such as sharing, and be aware of causes.
Because our children will be adults in the future
They will be the adults of the FUTURE.
And I (as you probably not as well) do not wish that
Our grown ups become sick or imitate our mistakes.
Due to watching us neglecting them...
No, we can not allow that to happen!
Speaking of that...here is a video on the matter.
NOTE : We need to care for our beloveds
Each and every day.
Even if we are too stressed or upset to attend them.
Let him/her know that you are there.
I read a really interesting email some days ago from a friend.
I no longer have it in my inbox, but it was about being there.
It was a beautiful history about a father and a young son.His parents weren't able to be there for him :His mother and father were working until late to sustain their house and pay their bills.
They could barely see eachother : He was early at schoolAnd his parents would return late from work, By that time the child would be sleepingTo attend another day of school on the following day.
So...his father had an idea.
Late at night when he arrived home from work,
He would make a tiny noose in his son's bedsheets
and kiss his forehead, every night.
That way, the child would know that his father was there.
Bottom line :
On this tiny history,
The noose would represent a tiny but meaningful gesture of being there
And a sign of connection between both.
We do not need a lot of words,
We need (big or small) actions
That come out from the heart, with kindness and love, instead.
To heal broken / bruised self esteem
It takes time...specially if you still
do not know what was the cause.
So... I will demonstrate some steps here
(I have been through this journey already
and still am following some of these steps)
1ST STEP : IDENTIFY
In this cases we have to look back to find the cause
Sometimes, seeking for help can be/is advised.
(For example :
A psychologist/councelor or hypnotherapy)
We can name it «the root» problem,
Because we are talking about the possible cause or causes
(Can be multiple) that led to self esteem problems.
2ND STEP : RECOGNIZE / TAKE ACTION
Linked with step number one it is really important
And it is a great victory recognizing and be willing to improve
Let no one take that precious victory away from you
You are doing an effort to be a better person.
NOTE : It can be the other way around too...
1ST STEP : RECOGNIZE / TAKE ACTION
2ND STEP : IDENTIFY
3TH STEP : BE PATIENT.
By rushing everything, we will not be attaining better results
Or quicker results. For an effective treatment to happen changes must occur.
Bad habits must be broken!
Waiting is actually PART of the process!
In my therapy I was rushing and negleting
My well being and my goals. It had done me no good.
Due to economical reasons, I have found myself abandoning treatment
Specially when I was maybe needing it the most.
(For more information you can check
Relationships - Expectations)
But it was solved by searching for other solutions/alternatives
Eventually the place where I was receiving treatment
I had no longer to pay, because it was decided to be like so.
What I want to explain with this...
You do not have to live like that.
I know that you are a wonderful human being
And the faster you go seek help
You will for sure feel the benefits, eventually.
4TH STEP : Writing out or Speak it out.
It definately helps a lot. I might post the complete POV of some times of crisis
I will think about it , for the time being.
As far as I concern, I agree on this point to speak out to someone you trust
Specially, a loved one who you feel that you can talk freely, openly
Without thinking if you are bothering or not.
From experience , I speak with my mother.
Difficult times brought us closer and our daughter/mother relationship stronger.
So , out of a difficult situation, I can see and now sense improvement.
Not everything is dark, dim and other similar names .
I am satisfied with this because previously,
All that I could see was darkness, like a dark cloud in front of me.
That has changed now and that cloud has dissapeared.
I wish from the bottom of my heart that you are able to improve too
And find your path.
NOTE : I do not mind sharing my personal story or my journey.
Reason ? I want to help out the best I can.
I want you to know that you are not alone on this.
I want you to know that there is a light, there is a hope, there is a way.
sábado, 18 de maio de 2013
Good morning , readers !
How are you today?
I hope you are okay and I wish you all a wonderful weekend.
A little special something for you:
I decided to share the experience of working and studying at the same time
And some situations that happened to me, too.
Let's start off with the Point of View, shall we?
I have started working in a firm almost two weeks ago, by now.
The first days were quite a challenge, to adapt myself to the rythm ;
Besides this, I was not able to rest at home as I used to, atfter the course.
Working after the course was uniquely my decision
Connected with the wish to be more independent.
And I attained it.
" I sincerely believe that if we wish and fight hard on something,
It will most likely turn to your favor
It can either end well or turn into a valuable lesson to remember".
The downside was that I started to feel more tired day by day
Until I really got used to it. Sometimes a smile and a cup of coffee do wonders!
(I am going to search for something to replace the cafeine, really! xd)
[...] Anyways, I know it is not the best on the «jobworld» and out there
But I am proud to say that I do love my job, with its ups and downs,
Pros and cons. It is humble, requires effort and it is a challenge, every day.
I always say to myself that I am doing my best,
And to smile regardless of feeling so, so tired.
I usually notice that when I do so, it all tend to get better
For those five hours. I was able to make friends at work, too.
Situation One :
I do opinion surveys on the telephone.
There was this lady who told me a loved one was in hospital
Also, that she was depressed. She answered the survey and by the time
And afterwards, I told her (in my language) :
« I believe, at heart, that everything will be alright
I had depression in 2007, diagnosed two years later
And now I am being treated and feeling better
Know that there is Hope and a Cure.
I know and believe that you will be alright
And that we are not able to appreciate happiness without knowing sadness
It makes part , and we can learn to live with both ».
(...) She agreed. I gave her some confort
and told her it was going to be alright and to have faith.
She thanked me. Then I had to go and end the phone call.
But I felt that she was feeling better, calm.
It was very rewarding, for me to notice so.
Situation Two :
I am aware that this maybe is not the most correct thing to be done
But it has a reason, and one reason alone, with no more intentions :
To thank people for answering the survey and let them know that they were kind.
I usually do not expect or spend time expecting for the answer.
I do my part of letting people know that they made the difference on answering the survey
By email. I only send one email and that is it.
So , unexpectfully,
I got an answer from someone who answered to the survey two days ago.
"It was nice to be inquired by you.
I wish you the best success in your professional life and of student,
always with the kind and professional attitude that I am sure that you have.
Everytime you need say so.
Then I think :
I mean, how can I not love my job???
Yes, I am aware that people are not always loving and kind,
There are rude answers too, but I learned to cope and laugh it off.
It is not like it is personal!
And these few situations make me appreciate the job that I have
And how lucky I am for actually having a job.
I feel it fulfills me and my dream of helping people.
Remember : One step at a time to make the difference.
sexta-feira, 17 de maio de 2013
Greetings, my readers and friends
A little different from usual, but for this day
I decided to shout out to causes,
One in particular...
Universal Peace !
There is a movement called Universal Peace Flag.
It is meant for PEACE, BALANCE, EQUILITY, JOY
and for communities, cities and countries to become aware
of what we have in common :
The WISH to be whole
For LOVE, KINDNESS and HELP to be part
We can achieve great goals and aim for our dreams
We must keep in mind that we are part of something huge
And , more than anyone, we can make a diference.
We can stand for a cause and help.
We can volunteer, share, donate, anything to help out.
Will you make part?
I am currently representing my country
As an Ambassador for Peace.
I am honored to make part of this movement and team!
Visit us at
To learn and know more about this cause.
It is possible to contribute, shop or become an Ambassador for your Country.
You can also follow us on...
terça-feira, 14 de maio de 2013
Good morning !
Besides these recent quotes/statements...
«Giving up is NOT AN OPTION.»
«Prepared for the worse,
But always hoping and fighting for the best.»
That I decided to transform into personal statements for my own life
I would to speak about another one :
«Less is more.»
It is ... to one live with what he/she has got.To not be greedy or carry jealousy towards another and their possessions.
This can be apliable to almost ANY area of our lives.
Self, Relationships, possessions/belongings....
We can start with belongings.
We tend to spend much money in the latest technologies, brands, jewelry...
As someone once said...and we need to ask ourselves (and others) this:
Do we need that much?
Do you need that much?
What can make us happy, afterall?
So for today I saved this post for Less is more
and some POV's are to be expected.
We can start off by separating different types of files.b) Saving
By month (MM/) or year (YYYY/)
Then, by day (DD/).
You store them in a folder or recycle them,
In case they are no longer needed.
By month (MM/) or year (YYYY/)
Then, by day (DD/).
You store them in a folder or recycle them,
In case they are no longer needed.
You can save some files (by using an external disk or USB key) on the computer.
It is also a pratical solution
Since you can easily carry both around in a backpack or suitcase;
Choose the main files and separate them by categories
Personal, Finances, Work,
d) Old and New
See if your items are still usable and up to date.
Check if your clothes are still wearable or wore off.
See if you are still going to use them or not.
In case you don't and if they are in good conditions,
You can give them away to charity or to someone who needs it
So they can give a new use to it.
And you can save room for new, useful items, to take place.
e) Make up
You can label your make up with the date you opened it
So you know when you started to use and know when it expires.
(Actually this was originally Vanessa's idea.
Visit her at : http://diariodeumabeautyjunkie.blogspot.com/
She has great posts and reviews)
f) Wearing Make up...
Less is more is meant for this case, too:
A bit of lipgloss, a natural, soft liquid foundation
clear mascara and concealer (optional) are enough for a natural look.
The skin colour must be even.
Also, the concealer ought to be slightly lighter
In case you wish to conceal dark circles.
" I am a simple girl
I usually wear make up to enhance qualities
and to camuflage small flaws and (mostly) traces of tireness"
LESS IS MORE...
" Finally, it is important to find happiness in simples things and inside of us
It starts there. We have to find it.
And let it blossom.
Then we can trully show our essence
Give out the best in us, for us and others
And fully live life ".
domingo, 12 de maio de 2013
Good afternoon, dearest.
For today I decided to share one of other new lessons :
Passion... and Love.
There is a difference between both.
The flame of passion, that burning fire can diminish after a while.
It is to impress, to make each day something new.
If there is less passion at a certain time.
It does not mean the other part does not love you.
I am personally a believer of true love.
I also believe that I have met love, himself.
It is part to be less passion over time,
Less new things.
But the couple CAN renew that burning flame...
By going out elsewhere, going to movies,
Trying out new things, spending more time together,
taking him/her to that place he/she loves
or that he/she would seriously like to go to!
Allow him/her to know how much you love your other half.
Let them know ... How much they are special,
How much they mean the world to you!
Love is something else.
It is so much more than just passion !
Love resists the test of time.
Love gives and offers.
Love does not demand nor wishes anything in return, constantly.
Love is to smile when one is smilling,
And feeling the aches when your special someone is hurting.
Love is to miss that special someone every day,
And every day to love that person more.
So treasure your loved ones,
Treasure your other half,
That person who makes you feel complete.
sábado, 11 de maio de 2013
Good afternoon , dearest.
Based on Life´s experience...my own that it gave me,
I decided to write this post.
It is personal but has important lessons to it.
" Clinging to the Past constantly can wreck you.
Holding onto it might be useless at times.
And you can lose time of your life while doing so
Time that could and can be spent on other things
And on meeting other people ".
I do not mean for example when people decide to give a time
Or find their own paths ;
But when holding onto one that no long has anything to offer.
Let past be, is my latest advice.
I have done so as it has no longer anything new to say
Nor has changed , nor has learned.
I do not mean to be harsh
But by saying otherwise during other times, old times (around 4 years ago)
I fooled and deceived myself. I do not wish the same for you, reader.
As someone once said :
« Fool me once, shame on you
Fool me twice, shame on me »
So, regarding this, my answer was permanent.
Moving on is a reality. Which I already did.
The best we can do is to take these lessons with us
It will make me (and you) stronger.
And I do not wish a bad life to that person.
Quite the opposite, I wish the best to everyone.
But I have the right and already decided that our paths are not to ever cross again.
Because there is absolutely nothing more nor new to say.
We have to let past be...
So we can allow ourselves to heal.
So we can think for a minute, meditate...think...
And be down to earth.
I decided to approach this subject because
Since I have started to think about the present
I have felt the benefits out of it!
PLUS, I have lost quality time of my life due to this.
And neglected myself of finding someone at that time.
I did find someone who I love dearly, until this very day.
Almost two years ago. (will be at the end of the month)
I came to terms that, it was meant to happen
And our souls were meant to meet.
As someone dear to me said too...
There is a right time for everything to happen
And everything happens for a reason. :)
I am a stronger human being because of this.
And I am grateful for everything, even the worst times!
We cannot appreciate and see the beauty of being happy
Without sadness. It is part. It makes part. It is life's cycle.
I hope I was able to bring light about this subject
sexta-feira, 10 de maio de 2013
It is a special day today.
Today, May 10th is the Worldwide Lupus Awareness Day.
In common with mental illness, this is a silent disease.
The actual cause is still not known.
(We need to find a CURE)
What is Lupus ?
Lupus is an chronic illness that can affect people of all ages, races and gender.
However, adult women are the highest number of pacient suffering from it.
(90% are women , between 15 and 40 years old).
It is considered an auto imune illness because the body does not have enough defenses to fight infections
and attacks itself. Lupus is not a contagious illness, but a chronic disease.
Useful Websites / Sources :
What I would like to challenge you
(And ask you too)
To wear a purple ribbon to help this cause
And the ones who are battling, every day.
NOTE : I am with you.
NOTE : I am with you.
terça-feira, 7 de maio de 2013
Good morning , my readers
After a while gone, I am back...
Before speaking and writing about other topics,
I decided to show you a rather interesting game/app on Facebook
That I saw (only a bit) yesterday afternoon.
The name of the game is Half The Sky Movement - The Game
It has a different approach on Women's Rights.
Action is taken in India, where your character is a woman
and you have to make decisions on a daily basis.
Your decisions have influence through out the game itself.
The goal is to bring awareness not only about what I mentioned first,
but also about Education, Health and Human Rights.
I hope you like it, as much as I did.
Lastly, the link to the game Half The Sky Movement - The Game
domingo, 5 de maio de 2013
It is a bit late here where I live,
But, better late than never, right?
I wouldn't finish the day without posting this...
To every mother
In each corner of the World
Young mothers until the one's
Who raised wise men and brave women
Know that you are loved and always will be.
And admired by your strength, unconditional love and kindness, you are
You are a wife, a mother, a grandmother, someone's special daughter
Even if gone too soon
You will always be treasured and reminded for
Your beauty inside and out!
For you matter the most.
And...a Mother is a special being
To be one is to have Bond of Love
And Protection for Eternity.
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!!
God bless you all.
sexta-feira, 3 de maio de 2013
The only thing I know is this:
I am full of wounds and still standing on my feet.
— Nikos Kazantzakis
How are you doing?
I want you to know...
You are stronger than you can ever imagine.
We often figure that out,
When we do not have any other option than being strong.
I believe in all of you that
Come across this page and read each word that I post
Or even if it is the first time you are reading me...
Know that I believe in you.
I look forward to hearing from you...
And am glad to be making this journey with you...
Despite of any wounds that you have, on your skin, flesh, soul...
Let time heal, let God heal, allow yourself to heal.
Give time, allow your thoughts to settle in
Think about the one or ones you love.
Think about your relatives
Or even your mother or father, the ones
Who made your birth, your existence possible.
Reflect about One that makes you whole,
Whole as a woman/man or as a human being.
You are loved , and you can make it through.
I believe in you!
quarta-feira, 1 de maio de 2013
For this day, I thought about a diferent point of view
And approach on Mental Illness.
It is not easy to have mental illness, nor it is something we choose to have.
Mental Illness, such as chronic illness as well,
Tend to be labeled by people and society
And, still until this very day it is frequent to judge, and talk/write
Unacurate information and statements about these.
It is easy and rather quick to judge when you are not going through the situation.
Everyone's path and life journey is different.
Each human being is diferent.
And that is what trully is wonderful in life, too!
How boring it would be if we thought the same way,
Dressed the same way and all?
We cannot fully know how someone's path is until we walk through their shoes
As in, going through one's similar condition or situation.
We feel diferently,
We act diferently,
We demonstrate affection, love, kindness, in our own special way.
We suffer diferently and we react diferently through pain.
It is not easy to have mental illness, nor it is something we choose to have.
Sometimes, it just happens or it is triggered by events or people around us.
Often it is not "socially acceptable" to be sick.
As it is not "socially acceptable" anything that is either different or unknown.
People either despise, ignore or fear the unknown.
So I leave another question :
What if that unknown become known and even, familiar?
Would it have an impact or would you act the same way?
I had the first symptoms of my condition in 2007
But I was only diagnosed with depression three years later.
I researched, read because I wanted to know what was happening to me.
To seek knowledge is optional.
To seek help, is needed
Because your Health, your life is precious
And so are the ones around you.
Note: There were triggering events, yes, that I wrote about in the blog
Nowadays I am not ashamed to say that I had depression
And/or that I have anxiety problems.
No one has to feel shame.
No diagnosis defines people.
People cannot allow a condition or illness to put a limit to their dreams.
Instead, that must be a reason to push forward
And redefine his/her own goals.
I am not depression.
It was a condition, that, as many others can and must be controlled.
It has not have a physical spot where it hurts,
But it is real pain...ache that has a reason.
That reason can be figured out imediately or it can take time.
Again, it takes time, yet I learned that
Instead of feeling sorry for what I went through
Instead of whining about what I do not have
Instead of feeling pity of my old self
I decided to spend that energy
On the Present. Because Present is a gift.
And thanking for what I have.
And dedicating to my former self.
-- Carpe Diem,
Seize the day.
It is valuable to find proper help and support.
Professional help is advised.
And follow your doctor's instructions.
Our life is a blessing,
We are lucky to wake up each day.
Some, are not as lucky
And if we are alive,
Let's live with quality and truly live
God bless you all!
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