Good evening my readers
I have been thinking this, looking at today.
So, the subject that I chose today is Relationships.
(Excuse me for the delay on posting)
Are they perfect or they can be perfect?
I leave this question for you to think and consider upon.
My opinion regarding this, is to first of all think of your relationships.
Whether of the past or current one.
Past relationships are just that : PAST.
But are a valuable lesson if you think about what went wrong, what went right
And what must or can be improved.
Now, my answer...
- There is no such thing as perfect relationship.
To be in a relationship, is to be and face commitment.
Otherwise, what is the point?
Note.: I have nothing against other types of relationships such as short term relationships
Which are based "on knowing eachother".
To know each other, you can start off by being friends,
Then build a strong and trusting friendship as a solid foundation.
A relationship, without it, may (at times) collapse.
- More than a boyfriend or girlfriend you need a person who is there for you.
Otherwise there is the risk of the relationship to become "one-sided".
It is beautiful and healthy to talk about the daily basis,
culture, hobbies, movies, common interests.
People eventually grow old and
what is left is conversation and being there for eachother.
Comunication is also VERY important to solve things while going through bad moments.
- It is not about remaining the same.
Being taken or commited is also about accepting one another
The way he/she is. And adapting eachother to one another...
It is about both persons giving without always expecting in return.
It is about doing an effort, it is about surprising your better half.
- Bottom Line:
There are persons making an effort
And fighting for everything to work out.
Peace be with you!