terça-feira, 31 de julho de 2012

Relationships - Family

Good evening everyone...
Today's chosen subject was Family.

In my views...
Family is always a family. Always!
No matter how many argues or fights happen.
We never agree on everything and nothing.

The family is a heaven in a heartless world.
-- Christopher Lasch

Family is loving, it is about being there
Through it all. It is about LOVE , cherishing
Each member. We can all have ups and downs
But always, or almost always, they are there.
They see you, the way you are.

A family starts with love and caring
That should always be a reminder
Always...even through dark times

-- by Life

And sometimes...we are placed in a particular type
Of family for a reason. Or for many reasons.
For a Purpose. For Acceptance.
To know the "rights and wrongs"
To know what to do and what not to do or say in the future
To learn... enough that in years to come
You will know when and how to start your own.

It doesn't matter if one family is poor...
Or if one family is rich...
What trully is important is LOVE!
Love that unites each member.
Love that keeps the family together,
Keeping it from falling apart
When troubles lie close.

What greater thing is there for human souls
than to feel that they are joined for life -
to be with each other
in silent unspeakable memories.
-- George Eliot

Money can buy toys and material gifts
But money cannot buy Love.

It doesn't matter if the parents are straight or of the same gender. 
Gender and sexual orientation do not define parents 
ways of educating their child/children.
It is about receiving each member with open arms, 
With love as they deserve!



So cherish your family!
And treat others as you would like to be treated.

Many blessings
To each family
And to every family out there...

domingo, 29 de julho de 2012

Relationships - Past




Good afternoon,

The subject for today is about Relationships and Past.

1. How does the Past Relationships affect Present Relationships?
Answer : Past Relationships may affect the present when something is undone,
unsolved or when insecurities, fears, bitterness or resentment are left along.

2. Can it be solved and how?
Answer : Past is Past. It has happened, it may have scarred and injured
BUT it is over.


"Past is not the way to go nor the path to follow. 
Past is something to see and to learn from.
Past is not the way to live or compare.
Past is lived and told by museums, not by people and relationships".


3. Any advice on how to overcome from a past relationship?
Answer : In my opinion (just my opinion) if the relationship is now part of the past,
it makes no sense to live on, be stuck at a or even try to go back to it.
For many reasons that I am going to say :

Reason number one : 
If the Relationship (regardless of being LDR or not) ended, it ended for a reason.
Relationships (whether it is boy with a girl or girl with a girl or boy with a boy)
Happen when the feelings are mutual. If one day the other part is unhappy 
Or the other part no longer feels the same think : 
Is it fair to any of you to force a relationship to happen 
If the other person is no longer happy in it?
In my opinion it it much more fair to let the person go, 
To pursue his/her own happiness, 
Even if it costs your own.

Then who knows the present and future?
Present it is that. A gift!
You can find someone and meet someone that can treat you better
And whose feelings match your own. (i.did)
And who makes you happy, loving you the way YOU are.

Reason number two : 
Sometimes (often) the "coming back together" is a mistake.
Because many times the ghost of the break up and why you two broke up is there.
It hardly fades away. The insecurity. The difficulty to trust.
And trust in your partner is needed.

Reason number three : 
If you two are back together after a betrayal (regardless of who did it) it is hard
Not to say impossible for things to be exactly the same again.

4. How to move on from that Past?

Answer : First of all you need to know and you need to find out
What was it that in that Past has disturbed you 
Or left scars in you, still visible in current relationships.

Some examples : 
Poor self esteem, insecurities whether it is dificulty to trust
Or fear of being cheated / fear of being left for someone else.
Or even insecurities about your own person may occur.

5. Even if I have any of those problems, what should I do?
Answer : First of all , talking with either a psychologist
Or councelor would be adviced.
Also, confronting the roots of the problem is probably better than avoiding the subject. 
Many times people avoid or place in the back of their hearts and minds.
When those problems are painful and hard to bear.

They simply do not want to touch them...
But they need to be confronted, otherwise it will keep hurting
And it will keep being along the way, standing in between...
(I will write more about Therapy and its objectives in another post)

It will take time to heal. But you will eventually heal and be happy
With one person you love. Which I know you can.
Take care. P.S. I.l.y.W.

quinta-feira, 26 de julho de 2012

World - Secret of Oz


Good evening, everyone !
Yesterday I went to a really important job interview
And I met some people along with the recruitment process.
She was really nice and we talked about Polithics.
"Secret of Oz" was something she adviced me to see.

So , here I am leaving you this documentary
(It is about two hours long)
Regarding the World Economics Crisis :

Secret of Oz

P.S. If you are into Investigation and Social related issues and causes
I would advice you to also check this documentary :

New World Order, Invisible Empire

Have a great week *

segunda-feira, 23 de julho de 2012

Life´s Advice - Learning a New Language



Good evening, my dear readers!


Today I was (again) checking on my papers
(Quite a mess, to be honest!)
and I found on a sheet of paper a website.
It is called Eurotalk.com

So my advice to people who are on vacation
Or thinking of travelling abroad
Or even if you are considering for your resume
To learn a new language or some basic words :

Here is the website (English)
Eurotalk.com (EN)

and the website (Portuguese)
Eurotalk.com (PT)

The navigation through out the website is simple
You have a free first lesson to learn at least some basic words. You can see the local time, weather and the capital of the country. There is a great variety of languages, which is amazing!

Links to some languages :

English

French

German

Italian

Portuguese

Hope you enjoy it and that this was helpful!

Take care...


Life´s Advice - Learning a New Language



Good evening, my dear readers!


Today I was (again) checking on my papers
(Quite a mess, to be honest!)
and I found on a sheet of paper a website.
It is called Eurotalk.com

So my advice to people who are on vacation
Or thinking of travelling abroad
Or even if you are considering for your resume
To learn a new language or some basic words :

Here is the website (English)
Eurotalk.com (EN)

and the website (Portuguese)
Eurotalk.com (PT)

The navigation through out the website is simple
You have a free first lesson to learn at least some basic words. You can see the local time, weather and the capital of the country. There is a great variety of languages, which is amazing!

Links to some languages :

English

French

German

Italian

Portuguese

Hope you enjoy it and that this was helpful!

Take care...


sábado, 21 de julho de 2012

World - Haiti and Causes


Good evening, fellow readers.
Here in Life Blog,
We not only want to bring awareness about one's diseases or disorders

Yet, we also aim to alert everyone
Each and every conscience, ONE BY ONE
To important (not to say essential) Humanitarian causes!

We have to open our eyes to these type of situations
Such as Natural Disasters, Poverty and Disease.
Awakening begins in each one of us.
It begins in you, it starts in me.
It starts in each one, everyone!

Just the game/experience itself can bring the person
(Maybe) to a close reality of what may have happened
in Haiti (Port-au-Prince) in the year of 2010.

Haiti - Inside Disaster

This experience is more or less how it happened
You can take the role of either a Survivor,
Team Aid Worker or a Journalist on the Scene.

In that game you can establish dialogues
and make choices as if you were actually there.
It looks pretty realistic so...
I would advice people discretion while playing it
(The own website has warnings regarding those)

In my own views and Perspective, it also carries an important lesson along :

To SEE as if you were there.
To Be aware of others suffering.
To NOT look in one's own bellybutton
BUT to look in a wider scale and look upon others
Specially in their times of need.

" Because you will never know...
One day it can be someone you do not know
One day it can be one fellow brother or sister
In distress. Yet, one day it can be you
Or someone you held close to your heart...
So, please, help while you can
And serve others while you live! "

-- By Life

God bless you all!

Relationships - Commitment

Hi everyone! :D
Again back to the most requested subjects on Life Blog!
Today's evening subject is about Commitment or,
as many called it "being taken" to someone.

Being in a relationship is not an obligation.
It is not meant to be filled with pain and sorrow
It is amazing and wonderful, when you are with
the person you love and that loves you back. I am. (L)

He knows who he is. W.
I have been with someone amazing for a year
We understand eachother rather well
Also I feel that in the many times that
I was "Through Hell and back" he never abandoned me
And I, was several times holding onto him when he fell in sorrows.

Love is this : It is never meant to be perfect
There are problems, stress, many things
Nothing is perfect. 
YET...Love is...
Seeing another part of yourself in other
Imagining and making plans, a life with your other half

Standing through it all, embracing and accepting
 And I remember when we met
Those sweet, brown eyes,

The Friendship that began, a strong foundation
And the Love that bloomed between the two.

You make me feel complete, happy and whole
You showed me love,
Now, walk with me,

Heart to heart
And hand to hand
To our destiny, together.
P.S. I love you.30.5

quarta-feira, 18 de julho de 2012

World - New World Order


This is a rather delicate subject on which many users on Youtube went inactive upon. 
Were they no longer posting due to busy lives 
Or Were they forbiden to? 


Wondering why...
OR Is censorship still active in many countries?


I am not sure, yet some things get really suspicious.
Some things ARE suspicious.
And hereby, I am entitled to my own opinion
On which you aren't forced to follow...


Therefore you can, as well, in the end, 
Take your own conclusions and make your own choices


Yet, please take the time to listen and take your time 
to Search and Research...patiently with an open mind, 
Patiently without any fear or obcession
Search...and see the raw truth.


The information is at hand
Knowledge is the key to Awakening.


And do not allow yourself to go along with lies 
Or modified messages.


Source - Wikipédia.org, multiple videos.


Names to be know...


What is the New World Order ?
"New world order" to refer to a new period of history evidencing a dramatic change in world political thought and the balance of power after World War I and World War II. They all saw these periods as opportunities to implement idealistic proposals for global governance in the sense of new collective efforts to address worldwide problems that go beyond the capacity of individual nation-states to solve, while always respecting the right of nations to self-determination. 


Illuminati
A Secret Society, an Elightnent-age created on 1-May-1776, 
Plotting to create a New World Order through a one-world government.


Skeptics argue that evidence would suggest 
that the Bavarian Illuminati was nothing more than a curious historical footnote 
since there is no evidence that the Illuminati survived its suppression in 1785. 
[Excert]
  
[...] But they survived, there are evidences.


Population control and Mass Media
I think they are hand to hand.
They want that there exists only One Order that dominates the population. 
They start off by dominating the mind (mind control) 
and also using Mass Surveilance (also called the "all seing" 
Eye in top of a piramid. 


That symbol, you can see it in many places, including dolars, I believe. 
Also, conspirancy theorists think that that New World Order (NOW) 
Wants to control Reproduction of individuals.


The Complete Article :
Wiki - New World Order


It is not a fairytale. 
And one proof is: 


Pay attention to what you see. 
To what you listen. 


Many music artists are involved and controlled.
Many messages are in music and television. 
In logos or comercials...even cartoons!
But only to ones that pay attention...closely.


Sometimes, it is so subtile that you don't notice!
Sometimes, you see it so many times that you get used to it, 
Your eyes, your ears get used to it all.


Slow down and reverse some songs.
You may get surprising results out of that...


One reality is for sure :

One reality is for sure : The economy is sinking!
At least here in the UE countries.
The bankers and polithicians are getting more and more RICH. 
The rest of the population is getting POOR.


That eventually will give MORE power to the higher ranks.
And a DESPERATION feeling to the populations...
Desperation and Powerless feelings WILL allow them to take full control.

Awake and SEE... it is not too late...


http://pt-en-life.blogspot.pt/2011/07/motivation-for-masses-lifes-advice.html

http://pt-en-life.blogspot.pt/2011/10/religion-gods-message.html

And also this song : ZAMBA - Killuminati
And this cartoon : I, Pet Goat, II


Blessed be.


Travelling - What to take...



Good morning everyone!
Today's subject is about travelling and what would be adviced to take.
I am doing one for girls (I am a girl) yet this post can be adapted to boys also
I shall put a note on optional items / depending items too.


P.S. I am not considering travelling at all, I am doing great here in my homeland
Despite of the economical crisis here and over the UE.
Also, I thought on making this particular post because
I had these notes for a long (longest!) time and I am cleaning my room, so yeah :P
Probably I'll also make a post later on how to organize the room.


On the bag...  What to take?


Main Travelling Bag


Whether a bigger bag or a trolley (it would be more practical due to the wheels)

-- Let's suppose for a week or less --


ESSENCIALS
TOP -

- T-Shirts or Tank Tops 
(T-shirts can be versatile, specially if they are of neutral collors for example white or grey)


- Dress
(One or two, only if you are into dresses.
By dress I mean whether a summer dress or simple black dress)


- Sweaters (three or four) 
Depending if it is a cold country or not, otherwise you won't need much, 
maybe only for the night time (can get cold during that time)


- Blazer (one) 
(Can be one coloured as a statement piece in blue, pink or black
Or a simple black or grey one. It is an optional piece, though
If you don't like blazers you can take a leather jacket)


BOTTOM -

- Underwear 
(Some pairs, three or four, depending on how long your vacations are going to be).


- Pijama / Pijamas
(Whether is a top and pants or t-shirt and shorts one or two would be the adviced)


- Jeans 
(One pair or two. What matters is that the jeans fit you well and that they are confortable
The advantage of a good pair of jeans is that it can be used whether 
in a casual moment or a formal ocasion depending mostly of what you combine on top)


- Cardigan Coat (a blue, brown, gray or another colour.
I find them a cute piece of clothe and also it can warm you up on mild, or spring days).

Shoes -
- Sneakers
- Regular shoes and/or Sandals
- Slippers (to wear around the house/hotel)
- Boots 
- Heels

Others -

- Towels ( face = small , head = medium , body = larger towel)

The optionals ?


- Blazer and/or Trench Coat

*Blazer (one) 
(Can be one coloured as a statement piece in blue, pink or black
Or a simple black or grey one. It is an optional piece, though
If you don't like blazers you can take a leather jacket)

*Trench Coat
(This one is optional but a good choice, specially 
if your vacations are going to be on cold or rainy countries)


- Fabric Jeans (a black or grey or khaki pair of jeans. 
Those are more formal would be wearable for a date for example, if you are not into dresses. Otherwise they are good for formal/work related meetings and job interviews abroad).

- Dress (one or two, only if you are into dresses.


By dress I mean whether a summer dress or simple black dress)


- Boots or Sandals (Depending if you are going to a cold or hot country)


- Heels (take them only if you feel confortable with them. Adviced - black shoes w/heels)


- Small umbrella (only in case you are going to a rainy country) 
or gloves (only in case you are going to a rainy / cold country)
or Hat / biquini / shorts / sun cream (only in case you are going to a hot country)
or scarf (optional)


- A blanket (this one I would only advice in case you are on the plane and if its a long trip 
or an Interrail).




Necessaire (A smaller, hand bag)


- Shampoo / Body Gel / Perfum or after shave (instead of taking bottles you can take several samples)
- Deodorant (roll on, preferably small deodorants)
- Soap (a small soap would be enough)
- Tissues
- Pads or tampons (in case you're a girl and anything happens...)
- Scissors , razors, manicure kit or any basic makeup.
- Brush, toothbrush and toothpaste (there are small/portable of those, for trips)
- Sun cream (OPTIONAL, only if you are going to a hot country or beach)

Main Bag (Purse or Suitcase)

-NOTE- If you have plenty of space on your purse/suitcase/main bag
you can move the stuff from the necessaire to the main bag.
In that case, the smaller/hand bag is no longer necessary!


- Wallet (documents (such as Passport, ID, cards and money)
- Mobile phone/Cellphone and cellphone charger.
- Phograph Camera (or only the cellphone in case it can take good pictures)
- Mp3 / Mp4 or Ipod. 
- Keys
- A Map (can be useful in case you do not know the country)


ADVICE - 


1 - Always keep an eye on your stuff.


2- Put name and contact or any reference in your travelling bag
Or even put a lock on the travelling bag.


3 - Search and be informed about the weight limits on the airports 
and check the limit that is allowed on weight to avoid any unpleasant surprise.


4 - The heavier clothes such as the leather jacket, sweater, boots (example)
Take them dressed on.


5 - Either take a rechargeable mobile phone card 
or  you can go to local computer stores to keep contact with your family and loved ones.


6 - Take extra money with you... 
Because if you do not have relatives living in that country
You will probably need to find an hotel / place to stay, plus spendings with food or souveniers.


7 - If you are from the UE or any of those countries and you are going to one, 
a passport isn't needed, yet you have to have your ID or Citizen Card. 
In other cases or countries, take your passport 
and make sure you have the required documents in day.


8 - Before going, try to get informed in the contries embassy 
or learn a bit of the language just in case, 
otherwise, speaking English can be very helpful)


9 - Check interrail, transportations (plain, train, bus) and hotel websites 
some time before going in order to find better prices, places and discounts.


-- NOTE -- 
In pink = for girls 
In blue = for boys
In black = for both


Hope I was able to help...
Have great vacations !

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